Unwanted flirt and unwanted bunny

13 August, 2010
Lunchtime today I got a call from Mutitjulu Community at Ayers Rock, from one of the aunties to the kids I know. “There’s bin bad luck <death>. Can you go over there and find out?”. Really, who? She guessed a couple of young men, describing them by who they’re married to as the names of recently dead should not be uttered. Oh really?! Yeah, police and ambulance was there.

So I got in my car and drove out, fully expecting to find a Sorry Camp in full swing. I pulled up at a neutral place, so as not to disturb anyone’s mourning, and got out. Only to be greeted by happy kids wondering what I was there for? Is everyone okay? Yeah! Really, everyone? Yeah!

My friend Rosie was across at a different location to usual, and waving out to me so I got back in the car and drove over to her. Is everyone okay? Yeah, why? Because I heard there’d been bad luck? Nah, who told you that? <Aunty> rang me up and asked me to come out, she said the ambulance and police were out here and wanted me to find out. Nah, there was accident over there, but it wasn’t us and they all okay, they went to hospital! OH! PHEW!

So we rang aunty and let her know, then I went to leave, and an old patient of mine known as Tiwi was already sitting in the passenger seat of my car, wanting a lift to a place just down the road. Okay, but who’s paying the fine if I get pulled over and you’re holding that beer can in my car? Nah, it’s alright, drop me! Well you’re paying the fine Tiwi! No comment.

Tiwi regularly tells people “Alan always look after me and worry for me, she my Other Mother”. I am old enough to be his mother, which shocked me the first time he said it and I did a quick calculation.

As we drove along he announced “You real old, Alan”. Oh, thanks for that. “Nah, but you look young, but you old!”. Oh, well thanks then..?! You got noone, eh? <A common question – no boyfriend, no ‘usband and no kids. Poor Alan, how dreadful it all must be>. No. Why you got noone? Because I like to be single, I am happy to be single. Well you should get black man because then you can learn all culture stuff. Oh? Yeah, you can learn all culture and language if you get black man. Righty-ho I’ll keep that advice in mind, thanks. “Alan! Stop looking me like that! You always look in my eye! And don’t smile! Just leab it, don’t smile at me, okay?”. Errrrrr….. Awkward!  “I might come and visit you oneday”. Yep, no worries, but only if you’re sober, no drunks at my house. “Nah, I’ll come sober oneday”. Yep, alright, but there’s no rush, okay?

Rabbit Procurement

19 August 2010

I’ve inherited a bloody rabbit !!

Last night a car load of people turned up over the road, making the biggest raucous, god knows what was going on out there but as soon as I heard it (I was on a work call at the time) I knew it was for me.

I answer the door and there’s Molly with son 1 (13), son 2 (10) and daughter (7), and large cage with small furry rabbit looking extremely out of place!

We got nowhere to stay tonight, <ex husband, father of kids, who isn’t averse to hitting Mum> is staying somewhere but look (and brings my hand to a lump on her head). Well, I am working tonight because there’s some sick people we need to talk to, so I can’t look after kids. Oh, well we don’t know where we staying. Well if you stay in the lounge while I do my work. Okay. So we go out to the car and it’s heaving with people, none of whom I could see except ex-husband in the drivers’ seat, who isn’t speaking to me because he knows I called the cops on him recently. She gets whatever she needs out of the car, and from the darkness a voice says “hello Helen”. Mathew! Hello! He gets out and gives me a hug, and says he’ll come to visit me today.

So in the family came, and I won the argument about whether the rabbit was going to stay inside (because it’s warmer) or outside (because I say so). Huge pot of porridge this morning, and off they came with me to work and I dropped them off on my rounds to the temporary accommodation where grandma and grandad stay. Rang the relevant domestic violence organisation and told them that they need to work something out because I can’t play hostess again tonight.

Rabbit remained on my verandah for the day.  When I got home, I read up on rabbits and I really don’t want to give this rabbit back! I’m going to try and get them to let me keep him/her. He/she needs a same-sex companion, and the cage it is in is totally inappropriate, it needs natural ground and mosquito mesh etc. I was feeding it beans, which I’ve just read are a no-no so I hope I haven’t already killed the poor little mite.

If they let me keep it, I’ll get a proper hutch etc. Gawd! But the poor thing, it’ll die otherwise, not because they’d be cruel, but they just won’t research the necessities etc.

28 August 2010

After about ten days on a steep curve, learning how to care for a rabbit, I managed to find someone living a few blocks away whose rabbit recently died, and they came to see Whitey, aka Button, aka Punchinello (he had a few name changes), and decided to take him.  What a relief!  I had him in my bedroom and he took off under the bed, and it was some performance getting him out from under there, to meet his new owners.

When the original owners came back and he was gone, I told them that he had run away.  Far easier than admitting I’d given him away!

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A Dog Act

ImageIt’s almost impossible to think of things to say on a blog with no audience! Obviously I’ve never been one to keep a journal, and I’m not a writer at heart. But I’ll persist for now, and see if practise makes it easier.

I might try and make a post at least once a week, maybe more if I can muster the energy, by way of putting it into practise.

Currently I have a 12yo boy whose parents both died recently, staying with me as a temporary foster child. He’s been with me on-and-off for the past 7 months, but last week it was made an official situation. He’s lots of fun, and incredibly well behaved, gets on well with other kids, goes to school everyday without any nagging from me to wake, eat, shower, dress, etc. He has a lovely nature, and is easy to have around.

That’s my biggest news.

Smaller news, I had a weekend in Adelaide, arriving home this afternoon, and went to see Cirque du Soleil with a friend on Friday night. It was fabulous, literally an other-world of magic, the costumes, the gymnastic skill, the colour and the music. An absolute spectacle!

Stumbling into Domestic Violence

A few days ago while visiting a camp, a woman I know called out to me from across the dust some way, to call an ambulance. I went over to the house and was waved in to the verandah, where I was confronted with the picture of a woman sitting cross legged beside a sheet of tin with some burning firewood on it, whose head was smothered in old blood, hair matted together, left eye unable to open properly, both arms swollen and at least one of them looking probably fractured. She seemed close to tears – hardly surprising.

I asked what happened? Someone bin ‘it ‘er. Who? No reply. What with? Stick like this (pointed to one of the firewoods). A man was standing nearby, as though he was staying around to hear what was said, but I might be wrong about that. Some of the women were hovering as well, and it’s not my place to assume he was the culprit.

I rang the ambulance and they asked me a series of questions including about who did it, etc. I told them what I knew and also stated that I was there alone, and it wasn’t my place to be prying. That’s what police are for.

I sat with her until the ambulance arrived.  They were superb, really kind and gentle with her. She needed help getting up, due to both arms, but once she was up, she walked over to the ambulance.

I contacted some domestic violence people about her a few days later. They went to see her and took a policeman with them, but she would not speak. They attended again the following day with a female officer, and she disclosed the perpetrator who was arrested almost immediately.

Some Town Camp Experiences

I’ve spent a chunk of this weekend watching the complete first season of a show called The Wire,   Set in the housing projects of West Baltimore, it’s a gripping picture of drug dealing, murder, and corruption, linking 16yo drug runners to corrupt politicians, showing the relationships that police have with each other, with their drug addicted informants, the connections between police and politics, corruption within both, and the complex dynamics which can determine the way a case will go, etc.

The town camps of Alice Springs, where I have spent some of my working life over the past ten years, could be compared in some ways to these housing projects.  Only the power that the middle and higher level drug dealers have in America, doesn’t exist in the town camps.  There’s obviously drug dealing in the camps, because marijuana is easily available as is what they call “grog running”, the illegal supply of alcohol to banned drinkers, in what are supposed to be dry areas.

In the past few years I’ve written bits and pieces about my experiences in the camps, which accommodate large, often overcrowded groups of marginalised indigenous people living inside a sub culture that  has a life of it’s own in Central Australia.

Most people who live in Central Australia don’t go into the town camps.  Including services that exist to service them.  A number of health services, for example, have a rule that if they have to service someone who lives in a town camp, then that resident has to be moved to accommodation out of the camp before they can receive the care they need.  My understanding is that the rationale behind this, is due to the perception of “danger” that exists in the camps.  However, in ten years of attending the camps, which began as something I did for work, but evolved into something I also do in my spare time, visiting the children and families that I have developed relationships with, I have not felt in danger once.  I don’t agree with the approach of not servicing inside the camps, given that the perceived threats can just as easily exist at any town address you are unfamiliar with; building relationships with patients in this setting can’t be about the individual and has to include the whole family and community.  I have solid connections with many people in the camps now, which I would not have, had I only serviced individuals who were moved to accommodation for the duration of their treatment.  I very strongly believe that until the brick walls that services build up, are knocked down, no real difference will be made to the health and wellbeing of town camp residents.

Meanwhile, my experiences in the camps have given me many moments of light hearted joy, despite the poverty and self destruction that exists, and I enjoy writing about these experiences, which I’ve decided to add to my blog.

30 June 2010 : Abbotts Camp

I pulled up at my patient’s house and walked into the yard. While I was standing on the verandah with Nerida and her husband Claude (nom de plumes, as always), a very old man who I’ve never seen before, with a huge bushy beard, filthy dirty clothes, walking around in his socks with a walking stick and blind in one eye, walked up to my car, peered into the window, then OPENED the passenger door! I shouted out from the verandah “Wiya! Wanti!” (No! Leave it!). He couldn’t hear me, but he was just opening the door to try and see if anyone was in the car, and when he realised there wasn’t, he shut the door again, but stayed beside the car.

When I came back to the car, he says one word to me, the name of a place in town. I said okay, I can take you there. He got in the car and he couldn’t speak ANY English. He introduced himself by stating his name and offering me a hand to shake – his long and curved fingernails need clipping badly.  Then he told me “Papunya”, so I knew his language must be Luritja, which I don’t speak at all but I said some random words I know in language and he gave me the thumbs up.

Then he started listing, and counting them with his long skinny index finger pressing against the five fingers on his other hand, “Papunya …. <then a few names unknown to me> …. Kintore”, places he’s either from, or travels between. So I said “Oh, have you got family in Kiwirrkurra?” (the next community from Kintore, over the WA border). He couldn’t understand my pronunciation (I don’t roll my R’s as the name requires) so I repeated it a few times and he finally worked out what I was saying! Yuwa, Kiwirrkurra! Then he continued across WA – naming places and pressing a different finger with his index finger with each place name, and finally ending with Port Hedland. I said Port Hedland? That’s a long way! To which he said, very clearly, “It’s a pukkin long way!”.

Abbotts Camp, 8 July 2010

Nerida and Claude again.

I arrived at their house and Nerida announced to me “I bin nearly FIT” yesterday, before offering a demonstration with her eyes rolling back in her head, her head falling back, etc.  Claude joined in with “she bin nearly FIT! Must be that medicine you gib her, eh?”. Which one? “You know that one you bin gib her?”.  I couldn’t really think what he was referring to, but the conversation continued without any confirmation or denial from me.

Claude then said  “One old man from Dokka Ribber bin fix her!”.
Nerida: “Yeah, that man bin tell me, Nerida! Take your shirt off!” <and demonstrated pulling her shirt off>. “He say, Nerida! You sick! And E can see through ‘er, like x-ray, you know? E’s like, you know, Medicine Man, that old man, from Dokka Ribber, and E bin pull out really big STICK from her stomach!”.
Really!? WOW!
“Yeah, it was really big that stick, E pull it out from her, then he put it away, down like this” <demonstrating the stick going down by the Ngangkari’s side>.
What did he do with the stick?
“E bin put it ‘ere like this”.
Okay (I meant, what did he do LATER with the stick but didn’t persist with my questioning!). So I asked, what’s his name? Ummmmmm…. We don’t know, because we don’t really know ‘im, e’s from Dokka Ribber, ‘e’s old man, well little bit old really, like maybe your same age.  I was horrified by this, and protested, which caused a lot of laughter.

 

There are many more stories like this to come, I just have to uplift them from another location, and edit them.

Thinking of things to say

It’s almost impossible to think of things to say on a blog with no audience! Obviously I’ve never been one to keep a journal, and I’m not a writer at heart. But I’ll persist for now, and see if practise makes it easier.

I might try and make a post at least once a week, maybe more if I can muster the energy, by way of putting it into practise.

Currently I have a 12yo boy whose parents both died recently, staying with me as a temporary foster child. He’s been with me on-and-off for the past 7 months, but last week it was made an official situation. He’s lots of fun, and incredibly well behaved, gets on well with other kids, goes to school everyday without any nagging from me to wake, eat, shower, dress, etc. He has a lovely nature, and is easy to have around.

That’s my biggest news.

Smaller news, I had a weekend in Adelaide, arriving home this afternoon, and went to see Cirque du Soleil with a friend on Friday night. It was fabulous, literally an other-world of magic, the costumes, the gymnastic skill, the colour and the music. An absolute spectacle!